Ahh, that's interesting.
Although you did say something very concerning, you said intimacy helps put you in control.
I'm not entirely sure what you mean by that and I don't want to make any false assumptions, but it's very concerning to hear that's how you view intimacy.
But, as I mentioned in my article, everyone is different. I'm a conservative person so it's really easy to tell when someone is trying to take leaps with me.
I'm a firm believer that slow and steady wins the race, long-lasting relationships aren't fostered overnight.